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What's the special thing in me that brings out the beautiful thing in you?

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What's the special thing in me that brings out the beautiful thing in you?

Wow.

I'm getting emotional, unfortunately.

It's okay.

I think the special thing in you, oh my gosh, is...

you - Do your best impression of me.

Both of us.

Okay, my best impression.

Okay.

- What?

- There's so many.

- Just me.

- Just you.

- It is authentic me.

- Okay.

I don't want to be stinky.

That's crazy.

Oh, okay.

It was at the end of the question.

I have to do one of these.

Okay, go.

Hey guys, it's me.

We're on a date.

We're doing this.

It's so fun.

Thanks for coming.

No way.

Not this at the end anymore.

You don't do that anymore.

I don't do that anymore.

It has been a while.

That's so funny.

Good job.

Okay, when do you feel closest to me and why?

- Mmm.

- This is a good-- y 'all got the questions.

- When do I feel closest to you?

- Bye.

I think I feel honestly, For sure my answer.

I feel closest to you like right after we have some sort of like uncomfortable interaction, like a disagreement or altercation.

And when we like take our time and we talk through it, we wrestle through it, like those moments where like,

finally all that tension is released and we know we're like, poll again and we're fine and we're on good terms.

Things are forgiven.

I feel so close to you.

-Yeah.

We did it.

Thank you.

Okay.

What's the special thing in me that brings out the beautiful thing in you?

- Wow.

I'm getting emotional, unfortunately.

- That's okay.

- I think the special thing in you, oh my gosh.

- It's coming fast.

- Is your kindness.

I think that brings out like such a softer like more kind side of me.

I feel like you really just like let me know like how safe I am.

like through your kindness and sometimes like, and I don't know if like I'm projecting or what, but like, It's not that I'm like surprised at your kindness,

but it's always so refreshing to be met with like your,

Kindness, like that is like a superpower that you have is like your kindness like I feel like, being met with your kindness,

like always like, I'm like, ah, yeah.

Yeah, this is my boy.

- - I love you so much.

I love you so much.

I love you more.

No you don't.

It's my pleasure to be kind to you.

You're incredible.

You're one of a kind.

My treasure.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Okay.

What do you feel we are hesitant to talk about and why?

Ooh.

- Bye.

I still think...

- I don't think incredibly hesitant, but I still think there is some hesitancy on two subjects.

Okay, right?

I think still like I I think less so money than it used to be.

I think before it was like, and I just know, it's a sensitive topic, right?

So I think there still is sometimes like a...

a hesitancy to really like get into like money or like financial planning when it comes to the future, blah, blah, blah.

But more than that, I think is the still the like, ways that we differ in our belief system, and viewing the world.

I mean, you've met my mom, that's when I was raised like under that's what I was raised to believe and how I navigate the world,

where there's a lot of things like Um...

like humility, like humbling yourself, not assuming that you're like the center of the universe, and just like being grateful, understanding that you're imperfect, things like that.

And I know the way you were raised, there's like some, and the way that you think about the world,

there's some differences and sometimes you'll say things and I'm kind of like, "Eh." Like...

I guess.

- Give me an example.

- Like, um...

Let's see.

Okay.

Thank you.

I think like And this is I wouldn't say it's something I disagree with.

Like we've talked about with the differences we have on the subject.

A lot of it is just different ways of saying the same thing.

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Right.

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And I wouldn't say I'm like anti this, but like a lot of the like, Um.. if I just focus on what I want so,

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so, so hard, I'll get what I want.

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which I know has the subtext of like, unless there's something else that's better in store for me that I didn't even think of.

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Right?

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And for me, Like...

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That's something that I sometimes hesitate to get into with you, because that's not necessarily always what I believe.

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Because you can want, like for me, like my understanding of this is like you can want things for yourself that you think are good,

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but maybe like actually have like unintended consequences or they're not good for you long term.

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Right.

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Like.

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you can like want like a ton of money or like a huge house, a bunch of cars.

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Right.

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But it's like there's plenty of people that have all those things that are super unhappy and sometimes more money, more problems.

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And so I think for me, I hesitate to talk about this because like, I'm not fully sold on like the...

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I'll get what I want if I just like really like do all of the mental work.

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Because like for me and how I think about the world, it's like, I'm not like...

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It's not about what I want.

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It's just about like what the plan is, if that makes sense.

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I get that.

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I feel like I feel like to go that kind of goes hand in hand with like believing in God and everything,

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I feel like there are things that are put on your heart that you want for a reason.

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So if, and you know, like we have intuition, which is knowledge from within, which is like the only way I can have this knowledge from within is if source gave it to me.

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I'm not getting knowledge like from outside.

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So if I have this intuition that's like, okay, well, this is something that I want.

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I was given that. by God.

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- Sure.

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- So, it's like, from like my belief and my understanding, if I was given this thing, if I was, if this want was put on my heart,

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the difference is like, how it's gonna come to you.

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Like, it might not be like in the way that you want, but the outcome is the same.

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- Right.

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- You know?

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- I think I agree to an extent.

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But I think it's also hard to delineate, because it's not like, how do you determine, like, what's an original thought versus like, that's something that was put on your heart.

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Like, and especially, it makes it tricky, because it's like, you can have something that's like that you think is like put on your heart that you like want really bad.

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But there's like tons of examples.

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tons of instances throughout our lives where like we think we want something

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so bad and we like really are convinced it's good for us

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and blah blah blah and then it like doesn't pan out

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and you're like well if this was put on my heart and i like

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And it was put on my heart for a reason and like for like my good or for a purpose.

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Like, like, what was the point of this not working out?

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So I think it's hard, but it's like anything, right?

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It's like you can believe in God, you can be like, you can practice whatever belief system you have, and it's not always going to pan out.

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But I think like going back to the question, like, I think it's good that we continue to get into this, and we will.

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I know us. But, um...

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I'm also okay if we see If our thought process - Revolving this topic is not, like, parallel means, like, we're in sync.

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I'm okay if it's, personally, I'm okay if it's not parallel, but it's, like, close enough.

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Like, I don't think it should be perpendicular, but if we're, like, semi -aligned, And there's no, there's like nothing like foundational where I'm just like,

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that's bogus or you're like, that's bogus.

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I don't see a problem.

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We don't have to be 100 % on the same page.

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Yeah.

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That's fine.

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Like you, you have your way of life that works for you.

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I have mine that works for me and I think those can coexist.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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- Talked about that for an hour.

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- We talked about it for the perfect amount of time.

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- We did, baby.

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- We're good.

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Mm -hmm.

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-Hm.

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When have you seen me the most vulnerable?

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And what did it teach you about caring for me?

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I know what you're going to say.

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When have I seen you the most Thank you.

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- What did I teach you about caring for me?

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- The first thing that comes to mind is when your mom came in town.

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Oh, that's not what I was thinking.

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What were you thinking?

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Hawaii.

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- That was good, but see, you were like, in tears with your mom.

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- Yeah.

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- You know, Hawaii was absolutely, like you were vulnerable, but I think there were still some walls up when we were talking in Hawaii personally.

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Like knowing you now, I feel like there were a bit of walls up.

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But yeah, the most vulnerable I think is when your mom came to town and you were like sad.

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This is like when she came for Thanksgiving.

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- Was it?

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- Or was it after she left?

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- It's when she came and when you were sad, you were like, I feel like I need me.

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- And I had to go talk to her.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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- Yeah.

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- Yeah.

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'Cause you haven't seen me cry a whole lot.

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A couple times.

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I've seen you cry at like a handful.

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The barn.

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When we were at that barn?

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Girl.

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That was also one of the most vulnerable times.

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That was crazy. That liquor.

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The emotions, the love.

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That was crazy.

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And I can't imagine You just like sober, like, whoa, whoa, whoa.

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I got you, but whoa, whoa, whoa.

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- Of course not.

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No, I want all the tears.

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- Oh my God.

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- Put 'em on me.

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What does it taught me about caring for you?

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- Yeah.

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- Okay.

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I feel like you're someone that appreciates honesty.

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Hmm.

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I mean, who doesn't?

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But I mean like actual like, hey, he kind of did this wrong.

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Like, you should go fix that, you know?

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And I think in that moment, just like kind of ripping the bandit off and being like, hey, Like, especially 'cause earlier on in that day,

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I had talked to her about her past relationships, you know?

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- Right.

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- And...

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So yeah, it's just like, hey look, this is a chance for you to X, Y, and Z.

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Well, yeah.

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Yeah, I'm glad.

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I'm glad you stepped in.

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Me too.

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Glad you said something.

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I'm glad too.

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And yeah, it wasn't-- "Yeah, I came to you and was like, Dude.

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I mean, I knew like you're telling me what I do, which is why it struck such a strong chord.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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No. What's the greatest lesson you've learned from our biggest fight?

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Thank you.

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Um...

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- Thank you.

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- Yeah.

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You know how we're always like, it's you and me versus the problem, not me versus you.

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I think that's like, Um...

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That's where I really saw that, oh no, we both actually believe that, and it's not a cutesy thing that we say.

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Yeah, we just, we both like, Because you know how it used to be, like anytime we'd have any sort of friction, I would just be like, you're right, I'm so sorry I messed up.

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My bad, my bad, my bad.

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It was always just like, okay, like, let's, let's just get on the other side of this

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and I'll just be like the bigger person and just admit it was my fault, whatever it is.

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And this was like, no, no, no, no, I'm, I'm pissed off.

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And I'm gonna let you know why even like understand that like, that's just how I'm feeling.

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It may not be like, Like it may not be right, it may be wrong, but Bob, it's valid.

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I'm gonna share it with you.

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Even though like you were the one who sort of initiated the conversation and had feelings hurt.

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So I think bringing it back, The lesson, the greatest lesson that I learned from that is like, that we both really do care about each other,

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like more than being right.

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And that I think we have built a good system for handling conflict.

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And in the future, if hard situations come up, I'm really confident in our ability to work through them.

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Yeah, me too.

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So I think our communication is like top tier.

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I agree.

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- Yeah.

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- From like day one, and it just keeps getting better.

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- Yeah.

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- So.

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Cool.

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I adore you, Nandi.

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I adore you.

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I sleep...

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Chocolate chip.

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- Okay.

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- I think it's your turn.

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What does my love feel like?

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- Yeah.

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Ooh.

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Your love.. feels Like...

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the roots of a tree the roots of a tree.

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Care to expand?

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No. Yes.

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You're goofy.

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Yeah, your love feels so deep. so anchored. So supported. So strong.

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Everlasting.

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Wow.

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Your love feels like...

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There's...

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Like, it can weather any storm.

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is what your love looks like.

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- Wow.

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- Yeah.

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- That's beautiful.

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You're a poet.

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- Aw.

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- I got it for you.

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That really makes my heart sing to know that you feel that way.

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I do feel that way.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And it's true.

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Thank you.

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You can weather any storm and I'll be here to support you.

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I love you.

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I love you.

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Can't wait to like hug embrace.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Thank you.

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Thanks for bringing me.

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Thanks for bringing me.

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Thank you.

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- All right, my friends.

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Well, just some quick questions before we let you go here.

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How was it, how are you feeling after the fact?

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After the and?

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It was okay.

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I feel like we took a bath.

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Like I just feel like - I feel so refreshed and cleansed and like - - Yeah, it was a lot of fun.

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Okay, cleansed though.

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Tell me more about that.

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What is the experience of feeling cleansed?

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I guess just diving into some conversations that I think we're open to having, but we don't jump at the opportunity to have.

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And I think it's made us realize, oh, we can easily get into this more and it'll be fine.

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So it's refreshing to know that.

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- I agree.

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- You think so?

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- Yeah.

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- Cool.

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- I do think so.

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